This question came up in one of my classes this past semester and has been brewing and stewing in my mind since so, I thought I would ask you.
What makes an expert an expert, particularly when it comes to children and all things pertaining to kids? Is it having kids of your own? Is it having a degree in Psychology or in Education?
One so called expert who recently visited the school where I teach encouraged us to let a child, who is cursing because he or she is upset and angry, “curse it out.” The kid just needs to get it off his or her chest. However, another expert who visited about a year or so ago stated that not only is it unacceptable to allow a child to curse out a staff member, but that a child should not be allowed to swear at peers and should be taught to respect him or herself and others as well.
Two years ago, the teaching staff along with several aides and administrative staff members attended a day long conference with several workshops and break out sessions. During one of those sessions, an “expert” told us that we should pick and choose our battles with the kids. This “expert” told us that ignoring a curse word or two and turning a blind eye to certain harmless behaviors, as long as the kid’s general behavior is good, is completely acceptable and he encouraged it. The school Assistant Principal (A.P.) even printed copies of this “expert’s” handout for all the teaching staff and discussed it the following afternoon at a staff meeting.
The day after said conference, one of my students was sitting in class with the hood from his sweatshirt pulled over his head, quietly doing his work. Although it is against school policy for students to wear hoods indoors, I didn’t saying anything. Afterall, why would I want to do battle with a kid on pyschotropic meds, who also has behavior issues who is quietly working for a change? Well, Mr. A.P. walked by my classroom, noticed this kid and his egregious act, entered the room and loudly stated, in front of the student and his peers, that the kid was violating school policy and that he needed points docked for wearing his hood in class. The kid blew up and the situation quickly went downhill from there. So much for picking and choosing battles.
And then, in addition to the myriad of so called experts that have been paraded in front of us at meetings and workshops, my colleagues and I have to deal with our resident psychology staff. Read the rest of this entry »

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